what products do you offer?

Individual Therapy, EMDR, DBT, TF-CBT

what is your business address?

302 Campusview Dr Ste 201, Columbia, MO 65201, US

what payments do you accept?

Cash, credit card, health savings account - We are "out of network" with insurance providers but can provide a superbill you can use to try to get reimbursed for part of your expense.

What do you know about my business?

Aspire Counseling offers individual counseling for preteens, teenagers & adults through retirement. Our therapists specialize in trauma therapy, anxiety treatment, Dialectical Behavior Therapy & grief counseling. We are LGBTQ+ affirming and work with clients of diverse gender, sexual orientation, culture, race & life experiences.

Do you accept reservations/appointments?

All counseling & therapy sessions are by appointment only.

How many employees work with your company?

We currently have 7 therapists at Aspire Counseling

What is Unique about your business?

We focus on providing high quality evidence based mental health services, because we believe you deserve counseling services that work so you can live life in a way that feels authentic to who you are as an individual.

What holidays are you opened for?

Each therapist decides their own hours and decides which days they will work. Therefore, while some therapists may see clients some holidays others may choose not to.

What insurance do you accept?

We are out of network for all health insurance plans but can provide a superbill upon request.

Are you taking new patients?

Yes! We have limited openings with some therapists right now. Please call our client care team at 573-328-2288 to find out if we have an opening with a therapist who might be a match for you.

Do you see patients on weekends?

We have very limited openings on weekends.

Is there a unisex restroom?

Unfortunately, there are only "male" and "female" bathrooms in our building. That said, we support you using whichever restroom you are most comfortable using.

Hello! At Aspire Counseling, we believe you deserve counseling that truly works. You can ask about what is unique about our business, our hours, what type of payments we accept, parking and more!

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Do you have any Deal/Coupons/Offers available?

We offer a very limited number of sliding scale appointment slots.

Do you have a wheelchair accessible restroom?

Our restroom is considered wheelchair accessible but does not have a push button to make opening the door easier.

Is your establishment kid-friendly?

While our business was originally designed to see kids 10 and older we now see a limited number of younger children, particularly if the main concern is anxiety or trauma.

Is your business pet friendly?

Generally no. However, clients have brought their pets in rare situations when it's relevant to the work being done in counseling sessions. We do have a dog that visits the office about once a week and of course welcome all service animals.

Do you offer free wi-fi?

We do not currently offer wi-fi for visitors.

Supporting Parents of Struggling Teens: You’re Not Alone in this Journey

Parenting is a rewarding yet challenging journey, and it can become even more complex when you have a struggling teenager. Being a teenager is a period of intense growth and change, and it's not uncommon for teens to face various challenges that can leave parents feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to provide the best support. We'll discuss tips and strategies to help parents navigate the difficulties of parenting a struggling teenager.

Understanding the Struggles Teenagers Face

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Adolescence is hard. It’s a time of significant physical, emotional, and social development. Teens are trying to piece together who they are. They’re trying to figure things out and try on different personas. They know bits and pieces, some things they like and don’t like. But there’s a whole lot they don’t know too. And they’re doing all of this while still living under their parents roof and trying to make parents happy and live up to their parents expectations and by their parents rules. Furthermore, they’re trying to “fit in” at school where everyone else is still trying to figure out who THEY are. Not to mention the expectations of society of large.

Adolescence is indeed a complex and transformative phase in a person's life. During these years, teens are essentially in the process of self-discovery, and this journey can be filled with uncertainties and challenges. So, it's perfectly normal for teenagers to experience a range of struggles and challenges as they navigate their path to adulthood. These struggles can manifest in various ways, including:

Academic Challenges

Teenagers experience a significant shift in academic expectations during their adolescence. The workload becomes more demanding, and they are expected to manage complex assignments, prepare for tests, and meet higher academic standards. As a result, you might notice a decline in their academic performance, difficulties concentrating on their studies, or a general lack of motivation. These signs can sometimes be indicative of underlying stress or anxiety related to academic pressures.

Social Conflicts

The social landscape in high school is tricky. Even the teen who seems the most confident or “popular” has more moments of self-doubt and stress than most people will know. Teens grapple with the need to fit in, navigate peer pressure, and sometimes face conflicts with friends. Forming and maintaining relationships during this time can be tricky, as adolescents are still figuring out who they are and what they value in their connections. It's not uncommon for them to experience challenges in peer relationships, which can impact their emotional well-being.

Mental Health Issues

Adolescence is a period when mental health concerns may surface. Conditions like depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders can emerge during this time. These issues can affect a teenager's overall well-being, leading to changes in behavior, mood, and daily functioning. It's crucial for parents to be vigilant and seek professional help if they suspect their teen may be struggling with their mental health.

Rebellious Behavior or Boundary Testing

During adolescence, it's entirely normal for teenagers to engage in some level of rebellious behavior or boundary testing. This is a natural part of their journey toward independence and self-identity. As they strive to understand who they are and where they fit in the world, they may question rules, challenge authority, or experiment with behaviors that seem contrary to family expectations.

This boundary testing is not necessarily a sign of defiance or disrespect; rather, it's an attempt to assert their autonomy and develop a sense of self. Teens are navigating the delicate balance between their individuality and the rules set by their families and society. This process can be confusing, both for them and for parents who may feel like they're dealing with a different person altogether.

It's crucial for parents to approach these moments with understanding and empathy. While some rebellion is expected, there should still be clear boundaries and consequences in place for inappropriate or unsafe behavior. Healthy communication and trust-building are key during this phase to ensure that teens feel supported as they explore their independence. Remember that it's a part of their development, and with guidance and patience, they can navigate these challenging waters successfully.

Withdrawal and Isolation

Teens also go through phases of withdrawal and isolation. They may spend more time alone, withdrawing from family interactions and social events. While seeking solitude occasionally is normal, persistent withdrawal and isolation may indicate underlying concerns that should be addressed.

It's important to remember that many of these struggles are a natural part of the teenage experience. However, as parents, it's crucial to stay connected with your teen, maintain open lines of communication, and be vigilant for any signs that suggest they may need additional support. In some cases, seeking professional help, such as teen counseling, can provide valuable guidance and assistance during these challenging years.

Strategies for Supporting Parents

Open and Non-Judgmental Communication

Create a safe and open space for your teenager to express their feelings and thoughts. Be a good listener, without jumping to conclusions or offering unsolicited advice. Show empathy and understanding.

Seek Professional Help

If your teenager's struggles are overwhelming and persistent, don't hesitate to seek professional assistance. Therapists, counselors, and mental health experts can provide assessments, therapy, and guidance to address underlying issues.

Be Patient and Empathetic

Adolescence is a turbulent time, and it's easy for teens to become frustrated and discouraged. Be patient and empathetic, trying to understand their perspective and emotions. Sometimes, they just need someone to vent to or a shoulder to lean on.

Maintain Boundaries

Setting clear and consistent boundaries is essential for parenting a struggling teenager. These boundaries provide structure and stability, helping your teen understand expectations and consequences.

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Promote Healthy Lifestyle Habits

Encourage a balanced lifestyle that includes regular exercise, a nutritious diet, and sufficient sleep. These habits can contribute to improved mood and emotional well-being.

Connect with Supportive Resources

Remember that you're not alone on this journey. Connect with other parents who have faced similar challenges, join support groups, and seek guidance from professionals who specialize in adolescent issues.

Consider Family Therapy, Counseling for Your Teen, and/or Professional Support for Yourself

Family therapy can be a valuable resource for improving family dynamics and communication. It provides a safe space for both parents and teens to express their concerns and work toward solutions together.

It’s also important to note that you may want to seek therapy for yourself. Many parents consider therapy for their teens and overlook the importance of considering their OWN mental health. But the truth is that YOU deserve support as well. Parents is difficult. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed at times. Honestly, parenting a teen can make you start to doubt yourself and can feel isolating at times. Especially if the struggles your teen is facing are different from those your friends teenagers are facing. And a professional can give you support as you navigate this part of your parenting journey.

Stay Informed

Educate yourself about the challenges your teenager is facing. Knowledge is a powerful tool in understanding and empathizing with your child's struggles.

Promote Independence and Responsibility

As your teenager grows, it's crucial for them to develop a sense of independence and responsibility. Encourage them to take ownership of their actions and decisions.

Celebrate Small Victories

Even during challenging times, it's essential to acknowledge and celebrate small victories and achievements. Recognize their efforts and progress, no matter how minor they may seem.

A photo of a teenager looking over his shoulder. This teen is going to therapy, and learning to communicate better with his parents. — Photo by Talen de St. Croix on Unsplash downloaded 11/10/23

A Guiding Hand for Parents

Parenting a struggling teenager can be a demanding and emotional experience. However, it's important to remember that you are not alone in this journey. With the right strategies, professional support, and a commitment to understanding and empathy, you can help your teenager navigate their challenges and emerge from this phase with resilience and strength.

Keep in mind that your unwavering support and the resources available can make a significant difference in your teenager's life. By being patient, providing consistent boundaries, and seeking help when necessary, you can help your teenager build the foundation for a brighter future. You're a loving and dedicated parent, and your support is invaluable in guiding your struggling teenager toward a path of growth and well-being.

Missouri Counseling and Support

Aspire Counseling understands that parenting can be a hard job sometimes. While parenting is a beautiful and wonderful journey, we know that there are ups and downs. It can be really hard to watch your child struggle, that’s why we offer both in person at our Lee’s Summit MO location, or Columbia MO location, or virtual counseling to make sure your child can be seen in their comfort.

Along with providing teen counseling, we provide counseling for parents struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, OCD, and much more.

To begin therapy for your teen, or yourself, reach out today at 573-328-2288 ext. 1, and one of our Client Care Team members will take the time to get you matched with a therapist that will fit your unique needs, and get you set up for a free 30-minute consultation to meet with one of our amazing therapists. Reach out today to begin your support journey, and mental health journey with Aspire Counseling.